I’m a older brother to 5 girls, 2 on my dads side and 3 on my mothers.
Now the oldest sister is struggling with her BF. I don’t know if I can help at all but I’d like to know what is actually going on.
I’ve spoke to her on video chat and nieces and nephews have been there but I’ve never once saw her BF or even heard him.
So basically I have no idea who he is, what he does and what he intends to do with his family
My sister is always short on money and I’ve heard by my mother in the past he’s been on drugs (cannabis so I’m lead to believe). I know how hard it is to get off drugs and it’s really difficult if your on the out (not in hospital or jail)
So gets me wondering are they up to something still because I’d hate for her to lose her kids (that’s happened to someone else in our family and it’s heartbreaking to hear)
Really hoping she gets sorted out and realises it’s not the right way to be living.
It’s took me a long time to get where I am and I still struggle